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Walter
Albritton
June
22, 2014
Love always wins
June is the popular month for weddings. I
have presided over a thousand weddings. Sometimes the couple has asked me to
read verses from Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians, chapter 13.
It is one of the most
beautiful chapters in the Bible. But I must confess that this scripture humbles
me. Every
time I read this chapter I wilt under its judgment of my life. But whenever I
confess that inadequacy to the Inner Voice, he always whispers to me: “Relax,
Walter; it’s not about you, it’s about me and the agape love I can pour into
you when you trust and obey me.” In that moment I enjoy again the sweet relief
that comes only on the wings of amazing grace.
To understand the kind of love Paul
describes in this chapter we need the help of several Greek words used for love
in the first century. The New Testament was written in the language of the
common people, Koine Greek. This language used four
words to describe different kinds of love.
Eros was the word used for sexual love. We
get our word “erotic” from this word. Storge was
used to explain family affection. Philia is
the word for the affection Christian friends have for one another. We might
call it brotherly love.
The fourth word is agape, the noblest form of love,
the kind of love God has for his children. Agape love wants the best for
others; it’s the kind of love Jesus demonstrated. He even loved his enemies and
prayed for them as they were crucifying him. Agape love was what kept Jesus from
giving up on his disciples even when they denied knowing him.
Anyone who has tried it knows how difficult it is to practice
agape love in daily living. In chapter 13 Paul explains what agape love looks
like. It is kind and patient. It does
not envy or boast. It is not rude or self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It
keeps no record of wrongs. That kind of challenge leaves most of us gasping for
breath! But this is how God wants us to live, and he will not let us off the
hook with the excuse that “I’m only human.”
So how do we deal with this dilemma? The answer for me is this: we have to
embrace the truth that agape love is a gift of God. We can only receive it; we
cannot manufacture it. We cannot make it happen by trying harder. We must admit
that, without God’s help, we cannot possibly love in the way God expects us to
love.
None of the spiritual gifts is
anything apart from love. All of life must be grounded in love or we will spend
our days missing the mark. We should examine carefully what Paul says in chapter
13. If I can speak in the prayer language of an angel but not have love, then I
am nothing but noise! Great
knowledge and great faith do not impress God if love is missing. Paul leaves no
room for doubt about what he means: If I “do not have love, I am nothing”!
When I read this chapter and insert my
name, Walter, in the place of the word “love,” it drives me to my knees. This
is how God expects me to live but I fail so often. My response is usually,
“Lord, forgive me. Such love is impossible for me.”
But then I hear the Inner Voice saying, “Yes,
it is impossible for you to love like this in your own strength. But when you
are yielded to me, and willing to receive my love into your heart, then all
things are possible!”
In such moments I remember the eternal
nature of love. The things I have accumulated will perish. None of my earthly
treasures will escape decay and destruction. But love will last forever! It
“will never end” because God is love.
Love will abide when everything else is gone! Nothing
is greater than love. The best news, in the midst of the perplexities of life,
is that love always wins! And if I am willing God will help me receive and
share his agape love with others. + + +