Altar Call – Opelika-Auburn News
Walter Albritton
September 19, 2010
Try not to get too big for your
britches
An idiom is a common saying or phrase. Here is an example:
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.” Some idioms hang around for years, being passed
on from one generation to another. This one must be several centuries old: “You
are too big for your britches.”
When we say a person is too big for his britches, we mean
that he is conceited. He has an exaggerated sense of his own importance. A
story about Mother Teresa reminded me of the britches idiom.
After participating in a workshop led by Mother Teresa, a
preacher had the high privilege of having tea and a conversation with the
famous nun. At one point as they discussed her ministry with the sick and dying,
he asked her, “Mother, what is your biggest problem?” Quickly she replied,
“Professionalism.”
Momentarily speechless, stunned by her one-word answer, the
clergyman said, “My jaw dropped. I had expected her to say something about the
difficulties involved in trying to hold her community of nuns together. Or the
difficulty of determining who would be her ultimate successor as the authority
figure among the sisters.”
Mother Teresa then explained her answer: “I have five
sisters getting M.D. degrees and far greater numbers getting R.N., L.P.N. and
M.S.W. degrees. But a funny thing happens. When they come back from their
education, they are concerned about titles and offices and parking privileges.”
How did she deal with their elevated sense of their importance?
She said, “I take all of that away from them and I send them to the Hospice of
the Dying. There they hold people’s hands, and pray with them and feed them.
After six months of that, they typically get things straight again and remember
their vocation to be a spiritual presence first, and a professional presence
second.”
Those nuns were too big for their britches but Mother Teresa
knew how to help them come down off their high horse and get it right.
Most of us delight in seeing a conceited person get his
comeuppance. When someone gets knocked off his lofty pedestal, we usually say,
“He got what he deserved.” Sometimes when punishment seems slow to come, we may
say, “Somebody needs to knock him (or her) down a peg or two.”
We usually admire people for their skills but if they seem
cocky, as though they know it all, our admiration fades in a hurry. That is why
we love stories about famous people who “got it right” by having a humble
attitude. Two such stories come to mind.
An American tourist visited missionary doctor Albert
Schweitzer at his clinic in Africa. Schweitzer was world famous at the time.
The tourist was shocked one morning to see Doctor Schweitzer pushing a wheel
barrow across the grounds. “Why, Doctor Schweitzer,” he said, “how is it that
you are pushing a wheel barrow?” Schweitzer replied casually, “With two hands.”
Obviously Schweitzer did not have an unduly high opinion of
Himself.
Even better is the story of George Washington Carver, the
famous educator whose research led to the development of hundreds of uses of
peanuts and sweet potatoes. An African American born to a slave family in
Without a word Carver picked up the woman’s luggage and
placed it on the train for her. Cheerfully he accepted the dime she gave him
and went on his way. His sense of worth was not diminished by the woman’s
failure to recognize and respect him as a distinguished inventor and educator.
He was not puffed up by an inflated ego.
Humility can make even the most homely person beautiful.
Conceit, on the other hand, is an ugly attitude that can make our lives
miserable. It prevents us from being fun to live with. And worse of all, when
conceit has wrecked our lives, and driven a wedge between us and other people,
we have no one to blame but ourselves. It is never someone else’s fault that
you got too big for your britches.
The moral to remember when you start thinking you are hot
stuff is this: You will live a longer, happier life if you don’t take yourself
too seriously. And conceit will not have a chance to split your britches. +